A concern I hear from guys all the time is that there’s nothing interesting to do where they live. I feel you. I really do. Some places just don’t have a lot going on, especially if you live in the suburbs or more rural areas. However there is no excuse for having a boring night when you take a girl out. The girl expects better from you, and you should expect better from yourself.
Not to worry. You don’t need anything extraordinarily exciting to have a good time, and almost anywhere you go you can find a private place to pull a girl.
Back before I lived in LA, I was going to school in a small town that didn’t have the greatest nightlife. How then did I have so many great dates and have sex with so many girls? Simple. I learned how to have fun wherever I was, and I learned how to have sex in unique places. Changing rooms, bathrooms, alleyways, boats, shipping containers, cars, closets, construction sites, etc. You name it; I probably had sex in it.
Let me tell you now about a date I went on a while ago. For those who are familiar with my older writings, you’ll probably remember the bisexual platinum blonde I was dating for a while. I was able to pull her into a Macy’s changing room and have sex with on our first date. That’s not the date I want to tell you about though. I want to tell you about the date we had a few weeks later. Hopefully seeing what I do will help change the mindset you have about dates and what is possible. You need to realize that fun is literally all around you, and you can hook up with a girl almost anywhere.
I picked her up after class and told her I had something special planned for us. We jumped in my car and I drove us to the nearby shopping center. As I pulled into the parking lot I told her we were going to play hide and seek inside the Toys R Us and that she had from the time I dropped her off until the time I parked the car and came inside to hide. I pulled in front of the store and she immediately jumped out of the car and ran inside. I then parked the car and went in after her.
As I searched for her, I grabbed some foam NERF bats, and when I eventually found her we had a sword fight with them. After a sufficient NERF beating, I put her in a little red wagon we found and pulled her around the store.
After leaving Toys R Us we went into the PetCo next door and looked at all the kittens, lizards, and fish they had for a sale. There was a collection of large soft dog beds and cat pillows on the racks, so I collected a bunch of them and put them in a pile in the corner for us to lie down in for a few minutes.
We went back out to my car and started making out. I brought her outside into the loading dock area behind the stores and we continued making out. I brought her inside one of the empty containers and she went down on me for a couple minutes before I bent her over and had my way with her.
We went back to my car and drove to a coffee shop where we sat and drank hot chocolate for about half an hour. I showed her some coin tricks I learned from a Vegas magician and then we went outside to walk around for a bit. She asked if there was any place we could go to be alone, so we got in my car and started driving toward her house. She told me that her mom would be fine with us having sex……… just not on a school night. I knew of a huge graveyard nearby. It was 11:00 by this time and I knew it would be dark and closed down. I drove there and sure enough the cemetery was deserted. I drove on a deserted road to the very back of the graveyard and she took off all her clothes in the passenger seat of my car. I leaned the seat all the way back and we had sex in the passenger seat for a bit. I was a bit cramped, so I told her to get out of the car. She stepped out into the night air completely naked, so I bent her over the hood of my car and I took her from behind in a graveyard. Spooky? Not really. Disrespectful? Maybe. Sexy? Oh ya.
Notice I didn’t have to do anything too elaborate on this date. We played hide and seek in a toy store and had a sword fight with NERF bats. Then we went to a pet store and looked at the animals. Fun is all around you, you just have to learn to see it. I didn’t even have to get her back to her house to have sex with her. If you can isolate right away, strike while the iron is hot. Don’t waste time driving somewhere if you don’t have to.
Develop your ability to see fun wherever you go. Next time you’re out on your day-to-day business, ask yourself, “If I were forced to take a girl on a date right here, what could we do?” You’ll be surprised at how many fun and interesting things there are all around you. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a ton of fun with a girl just exploring random office buildings or hotels. Hotels are amazing places to explore. There are empty ball rooms, conference rooms with locking doors, empty mezzanine areas, secret stairwells, and hidden nooks and crannies everywhere.
So the next time you start thinking that there’s nothing to do where you live, remember that you don’t need anything special to have an awesome night.